The empowerment I need are written words that put my mind at ease. They are separate from race, gender et cetera. It’s is about the experience of being an individual in general. We all experience the mind and the same Universe. Just being should always feel comfortable.

I want to transfer this feeling of empowerment to the both of us, my dear reader(s). The way we’ll confidently be our intelligent and creative selves and wear this the way peacocks wear their feathers. 😻

My insecurities often cause shortness of breath and I don’t want that anymoreee. (Can you relate to that?)

In this post I will state some plain you-statements in italics. This you refers to both you (I say “you” for the personal reading experience, but basically I mean everyone who reads this) and I. They’re the type of words I need to hear and maybe you do to…

You don’t need anyone’s advice. You don’t need anyone’s approval. Follow your instincts. (Everyone’s judgment is different after all. Present what you truly love, from your untouched vision and find similar minds.)

I will be making statements like this through the day. Today, meanwhile, we’ll be celebrating Lila’s 3rd birthday and I’ll be packing for my two weeks at the Dutch coast. It will be 36 degrees Celcius at the end of this week, which is crazy hot for the Netherlands… It’s still yays though I’ll be a water Catje… 😸

I’m off to beddd. I’ve been watching Rick & Morty again haha meooww.

Good night ♥

Updated 03:54 (AM) [Timezone UTC +2 (Amsterdam)]

xxx

Heyss ♥

I was searching the right pose and creatively hiding the frizziness of my hair with a bandana hehe.

Meowww

Meyayss

😸

Have I ever showed you my keys? I’ve had a lot of keys but this one I’ve been guarding like crazy. The key ring attached to it I received from my mother. It’s made of gold. The dark blue tag is my gym access. The light blue thing is my Albert Heijn bonus card (for (personal) discounts on groceries) and the other keys are for the front door and the front shed.

I used to have keys to the houses of my grandmothers as well but the one I gave to her home nurse and the other was in a stolen bag.

I trust you, my Catje. ♥

I was a bit slow getting ready so this was my first meal of the day. 😅

Cute partyays

Sweet velvet yays

This dino theme is so awesome 😻

In a few we’ll head home and I’ll start packing for two weeks.

Last night, I said this:
You don’t need anyone’s advice. You don’t need anyone’s approval. Follow your instincts. (Everyone’s judgment is different after all. Present what you truly love, from your untouched vision and find similar minds.)
By this I mean that asking for advice isn’t wrong, but your own judgment is enough. To follow advice to get advice from someone else is an insult to your independent reasoning you don’t have to listen to. But you may, if you want to.

You have every reason to feel like a king/queen.

The best is yet to come.

Updated 16:51 (04:51 PM) [Timezone UTC +2 (Amsterdam)]

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I’d like to tell you where my words of empowerment stem from. The reason why I need to read these italics and pretend like someone else is writing this to me. But it’s a long story and I’m quite tired so I’m going to take a nap, pack some and then I’ll be back. 🙂 xxx

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Updated 17:58 (05:58 PM) [Timezone UTC +2 (Amsterdam)]

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